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Sunday, August 5, 2012
Report on Visiting NCYM-C
Report on Visiting North Carolina Yearly Meeting (Conservative)
Radical Hospitality: Cherishing the Old, Attending the New
July 12-15, 2012, Greensboro, NC
I visited North Carolina Yearly Meeting (Conservative) annual sessions, which took place July 12-15, 2012. I arrived in Greensboro the evening of July 10 and spent the night at Jan and Charlie A’s farm. The next day, Jan and I went to Guilford College to check in for annual sessions and attend worship under the care of yearly meeting Ministry and Oversight and the open meeting of Ministry and Oversight. The registrar reported that over the course of the annual sessions, 47 members of NCYM-C attended, along with 27 visitors.
One of the highlights for me was the Bible study, which took place each day for 45 minutes after breakfast. The theme was “Radical Hospitality,” and Deborah S did a wonderful job of embodying that theme. After welcoming everyone, she read the Bible passages for the day twice and asked us to settle into worship. Then we divided into pairs to reflect on what arose for us in the passages. Finally, we shared in the full group. I appreciated Deborah’s instructions to listen for what was new in the passages that were familiar, and her focus on the heart instead of the head. It was also a lovely way to get to know people in the yearly meeting better as I shared with different partners each day.
I enjoyed reading the part of Anna in Charley B’s play “The Call” again. It was a lot of fun to do the play with School of the Spirit classmates, and the Friends from NCYM-C who joined us were very enthusiastic. I am grateful for Charley’s work; her play raises a lot of the issues that come up around young adult Friends traveling in the ministry, but it does so in a non-confrontational way. The reading generated good conversation about traveling ministry and hospitality.
I had the sense as I went to the yearly meeting that I was just supposed to be available. That was helpful for me because it allowed me to say no to anything that felt like it would get in the way of being available. I felt very present in the moment, and glad that I could be free for opportunities for conversation and worship. I also felt good about my level of self-care. Although I attended many of the business meetings, I did not feel the need to be present for all of them, and I took naps and other breaks.
Usually when I travel, I am very specific about finding an elder ahead of time. Even though there were many people at the annual sessions who have served in that role for me before and I think would have been happy to do so again, I didn't ask anyone. As a Friend there noted, there were a lot of folks there who had my back.
I had the opportunity to connect with Friends from different branches, both in the annual sessions and otherwise. It was good to see several friends from North Carolina Yearly Meeting (FUM). I was amused by how people from both yearly meetings were interested in the “other” Friends―they live in the same state, it seems like it would be easy for them to talk directly to each other instead of talking to me! (And to be fair, some of them do.) I was glad to be able to be a bridge between different kinds of Friends.
One of the issues that came up in a variety of ways during annual sessions was how to support ministers and elders. Ministry and Oversight scheduled a time for recorded ministers and elders to meet for mutual support. Meetings that do not record ministers are considering other ways to name and support spiritual gifts. And I had several conversations with people about ways to support ministry spiritually and financially. I felt very supported while I was there and many people wished me well in my ministry.
I am grateful for the travel grant from FWCC that made this travel in the ministry possible, for NCYM-C’s hospitality and a scholarship to cover my registration, for Freedom Friends Church providing me with love, support, a traveling minute, and a clearness committee, and for all of the Friends who were praying for me and who welcomed me. Our time together was blessed, and I hope to spend more time with Friends in North Carolina in the future.